Swinger Events: Costs, Expectations, & Boundaries

In today’s course we are going to talk about dipping in to your first swinger event.  We will cover: cost, boundaries, intent, goals, reconnecting, and the afterglow.  Attending your first swing event can be terrifying, exciting and fun.  You will learn more about yourself and each other with each swinger event.  So, cum inside….it’s class time!

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Some Like it Hot-A Sexy House Party Story

A sexy review on a swinger house party in Sonoma with a few close friends.  We begin with how we met, stayed in contact and drove 2 hours to share a bed…a couch…and another bed with some of our favorite sexy, swinger friends!  We will describe the environment and re-create the mood to bring you into this fabulous swinger party! 

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Where to Hookup with HOT Swingers

In this episode we talk about communication tools for connecting with other swingers.  We are going to describe how in-site email works, chat rooms, Kik, MeWe and a handful of swinger dating apps.  These technologies, some of them geared specifically to swingers, offer a great way to get in-touch and stay connected with other people in the swing lifestyle.  However, they do have their share of hiccups, and we share some stories about our adventures with virtual people.

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How To Find Other Uses for Your Tongue

Communication with other swingers is just as fluid as sex, which is why you need to have good communication and follow through in the swinging lifestyle.  How should you handle communications? Do you have a primary communicator? What is too much, or not enough? How do you switch from being a passive communicator to active?

Swinging, just like dating is an approach game, knowing how to approach another couple and close the deal. This episode will help with those awkward swinger moments where you don’t know how to turn someone down. Or more importantly how to pick someone up. We cover communication styles and etiquette, letting someone down, and how to close the deal.

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How To Build Your Swinger or Dating Profile

Your online profile will either sink or swim any chance you have with prospective play partners.  We have some tips for putting together a first-class profile that should make a great first impression. So sharpen your pencils, sit back, take some notes… It’s class time!

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Understanding Swinging & Lifestyle Terminology

We take some time to break down some common swinger lingo and terminology to help you navigate this exciting world of swinging. Of course we throw in a few stories to help spice up this lesson.

While you could go searching across the internet for the definitions to these, we bring them to you in a nice delicious package.

Here are just a few of the terms we cover:

Vanilla Hunting

 

Unicorn

Cuckold

Cuckquean

 

Bi-curious

Play

Soft Swap

Full Swap

DTF

Kissing Rule

Same Room

 

Hall Pass

Voyeurism

 

Barebacking

 

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How To Admit You Want to Swing To Your Partner

How do you have that first conversation with your partner about swinging?  This is a BIG ice breaker that will impact your relationship. We will cover ways to bring up the topic, dive into those conversations and discuss the importance of good communication.

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