Instead, swingers rely on private community events and their own corners of the internet to meet. According to Ed, a seasoned swinger and co-host of podcast Swinger University, “The best way to connect with other swingers is to do swinger things,” he tells me. “Put yourself in sexy situations like nudist resorts, boat days, hot tub/pool parties, and obviously, swinger events. It’s pretty much the only guaranteed situation, even though there are plenty of other times where swinger behavior can occur.”