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Posted in: Techniques

Swinger Dating vs. Hit & Quit

Dating couples in the swing lifestyle has advantages and disadvantages.  Some couples prefer to hit and quit.  Depending on your […]

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Posted in: Communication

The 7 Communication Skills You Need For A Swinger Party

Have you communicated about how you are communicating for an event?  We will cover pre-event communication, pep talk, non-verbal and verbal communication and signals.  We share some of our favorite exit phrases we have heard over time and talk about how important it is to have a post event conversation.

  1. Pre-event Preparation Communication
  2. Pre-event Pep Talk
  3. Non-Verbal Signals
  4. Verbal Phrases
  5. Missed Communication Signals
  6. Non-verbal Communication
  7. Post event Wrap-up
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Posted in: Event

Anything But Clothes Swinger Party

A review of one of the fabulous swinger events in Northern California produced by Allures with DJ Black Ice.  A unique, sexy and sensual swing lifestyle experience that draws new and long-time swingers for dancing, and on-premise play.  www.Allureslifestyle.com

  1. Getting Ready:  “The first part about getting ready for any event whether a drink date or party, is to primp, prune and pluck.”

  2. Setting the Scene: The Hotel and Event description

  3. Fun & Sexy Things: How our night went and some of the fun we had

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Posted in: Expectations

Swinger Events: Costs, Expectations, & Boundaries

In today’s course we are going to talk about dipping in to your first swinger event.  We will cover: cost, boundaries, intent, goals, reconnecting, and the afterglow.  Attending your first swing event can be terrifying, exciting and fun.  You will learn more about yourself and each other with each swinger event.  So, cum inside….it’s class time!

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Posted in: Event
Hot Party

Some Like it Hot-A Sexy House Party Story

A sexy review on a swinger house party in Sonoma with a few close friends.  We begin with how we met, stayed in contact and drove 2 hours to share a bed…a couch…and another bed with some of our favorite sexy, swinger friends!  We will describe the environment and re-create the mood to bring you into this fabulous swinger party! 

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Posted in: Communication

Where to Hookup with HOT Swingers

In this episode we talk about communication tools for connecting with other swingers.  We are going to describe how in-site email works, chat rooms, Kik, MeWe and a handful of swinger dating apps.  These technologies, some of them geared specifically to swingers, offer a great way to get in-touch and stay connected with other people in the swing lifestyle.  However, they do have their share of hiccups, and we share some stories about our adventures with virtual people.

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Posted in: Communication

How To Find Other Uses for Your Tongue

Communication with other swingers is just as fluid as sex, which is why you need to have good communication and follow through in the swinging lifestyle.  How should you handle communications? Do you have a primary communicator? What is too much, or not enough? How do you switch from being a passive communicator to active?

Swinging, just like dating is an approach game, knowing how to approach another couple and close the deal. This episode will help with those awkward swinger moments where you don’t know how to turn someone down. Or more importantly how to pick someone up. We cover communication styles and etiquette, letting someone down, and how to close the deal.

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