Senses 2

A Symphony of Senses: The Power of Sound, Consent, and Everyday Objects

Welcome Senses attendees!

Here are the notes, playlists, sound bites, and links for all the topics we covered in our Senses San Antonio presentation. Hope you enjoyed, and get some value out of what we have here.

Outline

INTRODUCTION

  • Eyes closed
  • We are tired of swinger vanilla sex.  Porn version of swinging vanilla sex: Blowjob to doggie to cum shot.  Looking for different. Looking for novelty.  We bring the spa to your bedroom.
  1. ATMOSPHERE: SOUND / MUSIC
    1. SOUND IMPACT ON THE BRAIN
      1. Restaurants/Malls:  Spend more, eat more
      2. Movies:  alter our emotions
      3. Science
        • Tempo inspires movement, increases satisfaction
        • Curbs nervousness
        • Raises: Dopamine (pleasure response), Serotonin (regulates emotions)
        • Induces emotions that can visually make our partner more attractive
        • Dr. Daniel Levitin
          • “People who listen to music together are having more sex than people listening to music apart”
          • Sex acts last longer while listening to music
      4. Demonstration
      5. AUDIO EROTICA
        1. Read John’s Story
        2. Sound of someone masturbating/coming
        3. Sound of people having sex  – (play a sound bite from our orgy party)
          1. Websites for Audio Erotica
          2. Erotic Story Website
Backpacking for Pussy – Read by Ed and Phoebe
A longer sample of our orgy recording…
  1. MENTAL: CONSENT
    1. Hotter when asked
    2. BDSM community uses it all the time
    3. Asking permission
      1. “I’d really like to kiss your hand.  Would you like to feel my lips on your hand?”….HOT!
    4. Explain to your partner what you want them to do to you
      1. Specific and graphic
      2. Discussion of WHAT is going to happen
      3. Sets up the mental image of your playtime
    5. During sex guide your partner with more detail
      1. Affirming Instructions = HOT!
  1. SENSUAL PLAY – w/Body  (Try: Eyes open v. closed)
    1. Massage
      1. 6 handed massage
      2. Head massage: fingers/massager
    2. Body Rubbing (clothed/unclothed)
      1. Body Surfing with oil – messy – fun – (plastic sheet, kiddie pool, KY Jelly-5gal), Leg humping
      1. Bear rubbing
    3. Hair
      1. Dragging across the body  (different lengths = different stimulation)
      1. Men’s facial hair
  1. WATCHING
    1. Mutual masturbation – watch each other
  1. SENSUAL PLAY – w/Objects (Try: Eyes open v. closed)
    1. Feathers, rabbit puff, rabbit mitt
    2. Rope dragging across the body
      1. Home Depot
    3. Thuddy flogger between legs (wear leggings)
    4. Pervertables
      1. Kitchen/household items (silk flowers, Swiffer duster, spatula, wooden spoon, egg beater, satin panties, chip bag clips)
        1. Home Depot
      2. Turn into a guessing game – blindfold (bring kitchenware)
        1. Mr & Ms Real

Authors

  • Ed Swinger

    Design, Audio, Video, Writing, Voice, Production

    Ed brings extensive expertise in user experience, website design and development, and professional audio/video production. With a background in voice-over work and professional speaking, he ensures every episode meets broadcast-quality standards. Ed executes all technical aspects of production: recording in a dedicated studio designed for optimal sound quality, filming with three Insta360 4K cameras, professional audio processing (noise reduction, EQ, compression, loudness management), and editing in DaVinci Resolve. He’s programmed custom OBS macros that provide professional camera direction without a traditional technical director. Ed’s strength is turning complex technical requirements into seamless, professional execution that makes audience experience effortless.

  • Gemini Generated Image o63uhto63uhto63u e1772846096638

    Research, Writing, Voice, Marketing, Community

    Phoebe holds a BA in Communications with a minor in Small Group and Personal Dynamics. She brings deep expertise in sexual health, relationship dynamics, and non-monogamous relationship structures. As a researcher, she meticulously curates each podcast episode, drawing from medical journals, expert interviews, and her 10+ years of lifestyle research and lived experience. Her communication background allows her to synthesize complex topics and present them accessibly across platforms. She creates marketing collateral, publishes across 8+ social media platforms, manages all SEO optimization, and moderates 3 active community forums where listeners actively seek guidance on lifestyle topics. Phoebe’s strength is taking research and experience, then making it both digestible and actionable for the community.