A Symphony of Senses: The Power of Sound, Consent, and Everyday Objects

Welcome Senses attendees!

Here are the notes, playlists, sound bites, and links for all the topics we covered in our Senses San Antonio presentation. Hope you enjoyed, and get some value out of what we have here.

Outline

INTRODUCTION

• Eyes closed
• We are tired of swinger vanilla sex.  Porn version of swinging vanilla sex: Blowjob to doggie to cum shot.  Looking for different. Looking for novelty.  We bring the spa to your bedroom.

1. ATMOSPHERE: SOUND / MUSIC
   1. SOUND IMPACT ON THE BRAIN
      1. Restaurants/Malls:  Spend more, eat more
      2. Movies:  alter our emotions
      3. Science
         • Tempo inspires movement, increases satisfaction
         • Curbs nervousness
         • Raises: Dopamine (pleasure response), Serotonin (regulates emotions)
         • Induces emotions that can visually make our partner more attractive
         • Dr. Daniel Levitin
           • “People who listen to music together are having more sex than people listening to music apart”
           • Sex acts last longer while listening to music
      4. Demonstration
         • Playlists
           • Good Clean Love – Masturbation Playlist
           • Good Clean Love – Sex Playlist
           • Good Clean Love – Love Songs
           • Sexual Libido Boost
           • Deep Focus Mix
           • Best Soul/R&B Mix
           • Sex Music Zone Radio
           • Foreplay Music
      5. AUDIO EROTICA
         1. Read John’s Story
            • Backpacking for Pussy – the story
            • Backpacking for Pussy – Listen below 🌶️
         2. Sound of someone masturbating/coming
            • Moans and Moisture
         3. Sound of people having sex  – (play a sound bite from our orgy party)
            1. Websites for Audio Erotica
               • Literotica
               • Nobilis Erotica Podcast
               • Our Orgy Recording – Listen below 🌶️
            2. Erotic Story Website
               • Red Hot Red Erotica
               • Dipsea Stories

1. MENTAL: CONSENT
   1. Hotter when asked
   2. BDSM community uses it all the time
   3. Asking permission
      1. “I’d really like to kiss your hand.  Would you like to feel my lips on your hand?”….HOT!
   4. Explain to your partner what you want them to do to you
      1. Specific and graphic
      2. Discussion of WHAT is going to happen
      3. Sets up the mental image of your playtime
   5. During sex guide your partner with more detail
      1. Affirming Instructions = HOT!

1. SENSUAL PLAY – w/Body  (Try: Eyes open v. closed)
   1. Massage
      1. 6 handed massage
      2. Head massage: fingers/massager
   2. Body Rubbing (clothed/unclothed)
      1. Body Surfing with oil – messy – fun – (plastic sheet, kiddie pool, KY Jelly-5gal), Leg humping
      1. Bear rubbing
   3. Hair
      1. Dragging across the body  (different lengths = different stimulation)
      1. Men’s facial hair

1. WATCHING
   1. Mutual masturbation – watch each other

1. SENSUAL PLAY – w/Objects (Try: Eyes open v. closed)
   1. Feathers, rabbit puff, rabbit mitt
   2. Rope dragging across the body
      1. Home Depot
   3. Thuddy flogger between legs (wear leggings)
   4. Pervertables
      1. Kitchen/household items (silk flowers, Swiffer duster, spatula, wooden spoon, egg beater, satin panties, chip bag clips)
         1. Home Depot
      2. Turn into a guessing game – blindfold (bring kitchenware)
         1. Mr & Ms Real