Educational. Entertaining. Ethically Non-Monogamous.
If you have ever wondered if women prefer bigger cocks then you might be surprised when they prefer your dick size.
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Where is this episode? How do I listen to it? My wife of 24yrs and I have been discussing ENM, particularly in the last 18mos (she turned 50, almost died in a car accident, and our boys both left for college).
I want her happy, constrained by neither patriarchy (she grew up in a traditional Catholic Latin home) nor my own insecurity.
But she is my best friend and the love of my life…and the idea that we introduce partners who relegate me from “Oh my god…” sex to “Oh, that’s nice my love” warm but fundamentally less passionate encounters scares the shit out of me. my hope and dream is that we have a lot of years left ahead of us in which we can enjoy our sexual relationship. I feel like I’ve read/heard stories of someone’s female partner, being completely flattened by a intense, and perhaps very dominant sexual experience with an imposing male body that I find myself looking for actual data about how such an experience is integrated or survived. And frankly, speaking, surviving it is not even what I’m super interested in, but I don’t have a way to understand how an experience like this is synthesize from the words of a female. One that I think I trust more than Reddit.
Your wife/blog might be it.
Thank you for letting us know about the missing episode. Not sure what happened but we fixed it.
When in doubt check out our YouTube channel or Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Find our links here: http://swingerlinks.com
As to your question. Absolutely watch or listen to our newbie playlist.
https://swingeruniversity.com/how-to-get-started-swinging/
We give you tips on getting started, the risks, our feelings. Now we well, also be very frank and stated that this Lifestyle is not for everyone. Feelings happen. And you don’t know how you’re going to feel until you’re actually in a situation. You could listen to every single one of our episodes over and over but until you’re actually in a situation, you’re not going to know how you really feel.
Our best advice is to go slow. It allows you to experience the lifestyle in a safe and easy way without overcommitting. Go to a party attendant event. Just see how things go. See how your feelings change once you’re in the environment.
Watching your partner play with another person or persons can have a permit profound effect on you either positive or negative and it’s almost impossible to predict how you’re going to feel about that. Having said that I enjoy watching my partner with other people Phoebe took a while to get comfortable watching me with other partners and now she actually really enjoys it but it took years.
Thanks again for reaching out, and please reach out again if you have more questions.
Phoebe and I also provide coaching if you’re interested in that as well check out our website for that information we are currently doing most of our new episodes through Patreon and I’ve included the link here:
https://patreon.com/swingeruniversity
Ed & Phoebe Swinger
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