How to keep the secret you are a swinger from your co-workers, friends and family. Lying is impossible to maintain, you’re bound to trip up, and there’s a better way. We help you come up with an alibi and share our 5 tips on talking about your adventures in swinging without outing yourself.
SHOW NOTES:
- People IN your business
- Questions from co-workers/friends/family
- Examples for each scenario
- Our 5 Tips
TIPS
- Take vanilla photos to share with friends and family.
- Schedule some vanilla activities.
- Stay close to the truth – fine line.
- Get your story straight (Think about your alibi ahead of time.)
- Know your connection. (Person/couple you are talking about.)
Design, Audio, Video, Writing, Voice, Production
Ed brings extensive expertise in user experience, website design and development, and professional audio/video production. With a background in voice-over work and professional speaking, he ensures every episode meets broadcast-quality standards. Ed executes all technical aspects of production: recording in a dedicated studio designed for optimal sound quality, filming with three Insta360 4K cameras, professional audio processing (noise reduction, EQ, compression, loudness management), and editing in DaVinci Resolve. He’s programmed custom OBS macros that provide professional camera direction without a traditional technical director. Ed’s strength is turning complex technical requirements into seamless, professional execution that makes audience experience effortless.
Research, Writing, Voice, Marketing, Community
Phoebe holds a BA in Communications with a minor in Small Group and Personal Dynamics. She brings deep expertise in sexual health, relationship dynamics, and non-monogamous relationship structures. As a researcher, she meticulously curates each podcast episode, drawing from medical journals, expert interviews, and her 10+ years of lifestyle research and lived experience. Her communication background allows her to synthesize complex topics and present them accessibly across platforms. She creates marketing collateral, publishes across 8+ social media platforms, manages all SEO optimization, and moderates 3 active community forums where listeners actively seek guidance on lifestyle topics. Phoebe’s strength is taking research and experience, then making it both digestible and actionable for the community.
