Unicorn House Party with a Side of Single Male

[Phoebe] Welcome to Swinger University, your horizontal enrichment program.[Phoebe] We're learning never got you hot like this.[Phoebe] Here are your hosts, Ed and Phoebe.[Unknown] Welcome back to Swinger University, this is Ed.[Phoebe] And this is Phoebe.[Phoebe] Today we're going to give you another elective course,[Phoebe] a house party review to titlate your ears for the first episode in 2020.[Phoebe] We chose this episode because we have been oh, oh so busy.[Phoebe] Buying a house, tearing apart the house, remodeling the house,[Phoebe] and moving into the house all in a very short span of 30 days.[Ed] It's been a bit hectic this month.[Phoebe] Yes, but we managed to squeeze in some stress relief.[Ed] Quite a few episodes of stress relief.[Phoebe] By the way, you should definitely turn into the New Year's Eve event review.[Phoebe] Holy crap, that was good.[Ed] Coming soon.[Phoebe] Yes, yes.[Phoebe] Today we're reviewing this house party.[Phoebe] The woman who had the house party is a unicorn.[Phoebe] She's a good friend of ours.[Phoebe] And it was her very first house party.[Phoebe] So she really wanted a group of people that would gel well together.[Phoebe] So she started off reaching out to a few of her good friends[Phoebe] and said, if you know anyone that you want to add to the party,[Phoebe] you think it would be, you know, good fit or have a good time.[Phoebe] Go ahead and give them my information and I will send them the details.[Ed] Yeah, and they told two friends and they told two friends.[Phoebe] And we wound up with about a 40 person house party.[Ed] Yeah, it was pretty nice.[Ed] Good turnout.[Phoebe] That's a really good turnout.[Phoebe] It was a beautiful home.[Phoebe] Oh my goodness.[Unknown] Layed out really, really well.[Phoebe] The dining room was converted into a dance floor with a disco ball.[Phoebe] Mood lighting was all throughout the house.[Phoebe] The play areas had red lights, so you look fabulous.[Phoebe] The outdoor area had a nice three-sided tent with heater and places to sit and the food.[Phoebe] Let's talk about the food.[Ed] So much food.[Ed] Oh my god.[Ed] She admitted that she'd over-prepared in terms of food,[Ed] but no one went away hungry.[Ed] No.[Ed] I mean, there was enough food for probably a week.[Ed] And it was great.[Ed] There was a whole selection of different things.[Unknown] A buffet, if you will, of yummy treats.[Ed] I'll add to that for someone who's throwing a house party for the first time,[Guest] she'd learned from some of the other events that she'd been at and had extra towels.[Ed] She had extra sheets in the room.[Ed] She had condoms in the room.[Ed] She had lube in the rooms.[Ed] So everything was set for people to show up, have a good time, and not have to worry about any of those kinds of details.[Ed] She figured it all out ahead of time.[Phoebe] Yeah, trash cans and wipes too.[Phoebe] Oh, and I think she had chapstick.[Phoebe] She maybe even had hair ties.[Ed] There may have been hair ties as well.[Phoebe] This girl had it all.[Phoebe] I was like, oh, you've been taking notes.[Ed] It was great.[Phoebe] It was.[Ed] So today's theme for this episode, because we've kind of started off on this buffet concept.[Ed] And then there was so much food.[Unknown] We're going to talk about the party like a, well, like a three-course meal.[Ed] So we mixed and mingled and had some good conversation with a number of people there,[Ed] who introduced ourselves and met people who we'd never met before.[Ed] Right.[Ed] So new couples that we'd never seen before.[Unknown] And it turns out that a lot of them were fairly local to where this party was.[Ed] They all lived within a couple of miles.[Ed] Well, a number of them lived within a couple of miles before the house party, which was great for them.[Ed] It was a little further for us, but it's well worth the drive.[Ed] So we're kind of hanging out in the kitchen nibbling on a little bit of this and that,[Unknown] and kind of strike up conversation with this one Latino couple.[Ed] Very nice couple.[Ed] She had these striped form-fitting, you know, very hippie pants.[Ed] I mean, she walked in the room, and that was like the first thing that I saw when she walked into her pants.[Ed] Fabulous.[Phoebe] And it was like, oh, did you see that?[Ed] Yeah.[Ed] Hips, curves, great.[Ed] I know.[Ed] Just like caught my eye immediately.[Ed] Long, dark hair.[Ed] Yeah.[Ed] She's very sexy.[Ed] Very sexy.[Ed] Beautiful woman.[Ed] Yes.[Ed] And a little bit shy on conversation, but, you know, so a little quiet.[Ed] Her husband did most of the talking, but she still engaged in conversation, so it was fun.[Phoebe] He was very sexy.[Ed] Yeah.[Phoebe] Nice, nice hair, nice short hair, nice trimmed facial hair, nice barrel chest.[Ed] Took care of himself, worked with his hands.[Phoebe] He was a strong guy.[Unknown] Strong guy.[Ed] And also funny.[Ed] Yeah.[Unknown] Great stories, and because we were in the middle of, I guess, working on projects for the house,[Ed] well, we had been talking about plans for the house.[Ed] And because he was in construction, we were kind of exchanging notes.[Unknown] And so we had some stuff in common.[Ed] It was great.[Unknown] So we had good conversation going.[Phoebe] So, conversation's great.[Phoebe] Fast forward to the good stuff.[Ed] Right.[Ed] Because you don't want to talk to death.[Ed] Yes.[Ed] So we decided to ask him.[Ed] Or like, hey, you guys want to go upstairs?[Phoebe] Did we ask it?[Phoebe] Did you?[Unknown] Do they ask?[Ed] I didn't care.[Ed] I'm pretty sure I asked.[Ed] I'm pretty sure I did.[Ed] And we did.[Phoebe] So upstairs, we went.[Phoebe] And the night was young.[Ed] Oh, yeah.[Ed] This was within like an hour of us.[Ed] I know.[Unknown] So it's probably what?[Phoebe] 8.39 o'clock.[Phoebe] No.[Phoebe] Nine o'clock.[Ed] No, it's probably a little bit later than that.[Phoebe] But still, as you know,[Phoebe] post-wingers don't do anything until five minutes before they lock everybody out.[Phoebe] So.[Ed] We were one of the first couples to go upstairs and play.[Phoebe] Yeah.[Phoebe] So we did.[Phoebe] We went to one of the rooms.[Phoebe] And we decided to close the door.[Phoebe] Usually we like to leave the door open because we like to be watched.[Phoebe] But I think she preferred it to be closed, which is fine.[Unknown] Yeah, it's fine with me.[Phoebe] So kissing was great.[Phoebe] Energy was great.[Phoebe] We started undressing one another.[Phoebe] That was super hot and sexy.[Ed] Close.[Ed] We're coming off.[Ed] Her bra comes off and she had these great gumball nipples.[Unknown] Oh, yeah.[Ed] Those were yummy.[Unknown] I see you pinching your nipples over there.[Ed] Yeah, she was sick.[Phoebe] I love gumball nipples.[Phoebe] They're amazing because my nipples are not that large.[Ed] They're close.[Phoebe] They are not hers of probably three times the size of my nipples.[Ed] Well, you do not have insignificant nipples.[Phoebe] No, they're your standard number two, you know.[Unknown] I think they're a little bigger than that.[Ed] But yes.[Unknown] Okay.[Unknown] We will not quibble about the nipple size, although later I will confirm the actual size of your nipples.[Phoebe] We're going to get the calipers from the garage.[Ed] I'll get, I've got a precise measuring instrument for that.[Unknown] So yeah, we were playing.[Ed] Everybody was having fun.[Ed] We kind of laid down on the bed and continued kissing.[Unknown] And you went down on you for a while.[Ed] I went down on her for a while.[Guest] We had some fun.[Unknown] Switched places a couple times.[Phoebe] As you know, sometimes the drink will get to you.[Unknown] Yeah.[Ed] He was very disappointed.[Ed] I know.[Ed] And very upset.[Ed] He was.[Ed] We assured him that it was okay.[Ed] And it wasn't that big a deal.[Phoebe] And the thing was, he said he hardly ever drinks at that events for that reason.[Phoebe] Right.[Unknown] And for some reason that night, it got away from him.[Phoebe] And I think someone else poured him a drink.[Phoebe] And that always happens.[Phoebe] Don't ever let anyone pour your drink.[Phoebe] Because you don't know.[Phoebe] You can't keep track.[Ed] Right.[Ed] Right.[Ed] So.[Ed] And it's okay.[Ed] It hit him.[Ed] It hit him.[Ed] It happens sometimes.[Ed] But all the more reason to be very conservative when you're drinking.[Ed] Because it can get away from you.[Phoebe] Yeah.[Phoebe] And the lights were low.[Phoebe] I mean, the red light in the room was pretty dim.[Phoebe] Right.[Phoebe] And I felt myself getting a little sleepy like in a movie theater.[Ed] And I'm like, oh no.[Ed] He was very disappointed that he didn't get to have sex with you.[Ed] He really wanted that.[Unknown] He was, he was, he was almost angry at himself or not.[Ed] I know.[Phoebe] I did my best to reassure him that this happens.[Phoebe] It's totally normal and that we don't think ill of him in any way.[Phoebe] And he will always have a second opportunity.[Ed] Yeah.[Ed] And if we see them again, well, definitely engage them in conversation and see what happens.[Unknown] Sure.[Phoebe] Stuff happens.[Phoebe] Stuff happens.[Phoebe] Stuff happens.[Ed] And you always get a second chance.[Ed] Yep.[Unknown] So, appetizers.[Ed] We kind of left the room a little disappointed, kind of hoped for a little bit more than that.[Ed] And we kind of, you know, had that in the back of our head.[Ed] And so we wandered back down into the main buffet area.[Ed] And we started having a little bit of conversation.[Ed] The sick, there was a single male that we'd been conversing with throughout the evening.[Ed] Very nice gentleman.[Ed] Funny, great conversation.[Ed] And the unicorn that had invited us to the party was there.[Ed] And we played with her a little bit at a different party.[Phoebe] So the single male was basically stoking the fire.[Phoebe] And I'll explain how that happened.[Phoebe] But we had a mystery meal.[Unknown] All right.[Guest] We need your help so that your community, the very one you love and have so much fun with,[Guest] can also find our show.[Guest] Here's a really easy way to do that.[Guest] If you're listening on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, hit that follow button and leave us a rating.[Guest] If you're watching on YouTube, subscribe and turn on notifications.[Guest] We can't emphasize enough how much this helps the Swinger community.[Guest] And it truly is up to you to make that happen.[Guest] It makes a massive difference in whether new listeners can even find us.[Guest] And here's the thing.[Guest] When someone searches Swinger Podcast, the algorithm doesn't care how good our content is.[Guest] Or how long we've been around.[Guest] It only cares about ratings and reviews.[Guest] We'd appreciate it.[Guest] And your community will really appreciate it.[Unknown] Thanks for listening.[Ed] Oh, yeah.[Ed] Let's talk about that before we get into the main course.[Ed] But conversations were happening and a couple that we have known for years.[Ed] Was that this party?[Phoebe] Like six years.[Ed] Yeah, and actually they were one of the first, if not the first couple dates that we went on.[Ed] But nothing has ever happened.[Unknown] And we run into them over and over and over again.[Ed] So we're calling this the mystery mail.[Ed] Mystery because for some reason we can't figure out why it's not happening.[Phoebe] Yeah.[Ed] It's a bit of a mystery.[Ed] Well, sort of.[Ed] He's a really, really nice guy.[Ed] Like the sweetest, most genuine nice guy ever.[Ed] Just great.[Ed] And he's terrible to look at.[Unknown] I know.[Phoebe] He reminds me of the rock.[Ed] Drilling over him since before we went on the date with them.[Ed] Yeah.[Ed] He's on a list.[Unknown] Oh, yeah.[Ed] He's on a list.[Unknown] Yeah.[Ed] But it's just never quite happened.[Ed] When we first met them, we were new and they were new.[Ed] And so it was a little awkward and we didn't, you know, just didn't quite happen.[Ed] And we didn't pull the trigger and neither did they.[Ed] But then like recently, over the last couple of years, when we've run into them,[Ed] it's just been something off-putting about the dynamic in the room.[Ed] And it's really hard to put your finger on.[Ed] But the way that they talk to each other, the way that she presents herself,[Ed] makes her very unapproachable.[Unknown] And it's very disappointing because she was super cute.[Ed] And I was more than interested in her at the time.[Ed] Yes.[Ed] I still think she's an attractive woman.[Guest] Yes.[Ed] But there's just, it just feels off.[Ed] And…[Phoebe] I don't, I don't think they're on the same page.[Phoebe] And you, when I was observing their nonverbal communication,[Phoebe] it wasn't friendly.[Phoebe] And it looked like they were, you know, having a bit of a tiff.[Phoebe] It happens, I've seen it before.[Phoebe] But I've seen it before with this couple a lot at events.[Phoebe] So, after a while, you go, well, maybe, you know, maybe they're just not on the same page.[Unknown] Maybe, you know, maybe there's something else going on here.[Phoebe] It just doesn't look like they're a team in this sport.[Phoebe] Someone's not on the same page.[Ed] Yeah.[Ed] And for us, that's kind of a mood killer.[Phoebe] Well, yeah.[Phoebe] And yeah, you want, you want to be with a couple that's on the same page.[Phoebe] You want to be with a couple that, that respect one another.[Phoebe] Absolutely.[Phoebe] And love with one another.[Phoebe] And that they treat one another well.[Phoebe] And that, you know, each one of them is…[Ed] Yeah, it's just, it feels like you don't want to get in the middle of this.[Phoebe] Right.[Phoebe] Yes, because it feels awkward.[Phoebe] Right.[Unknown] Yeah.[Ed] So, it's, it's one of those things where it's like, I'm not sure I want to step into that[Ed] room.[Unknown] That's right.[Phoebe] And you don't know what's going to happen.[Ed] You don't know what's going to happen, because you can see what's happening not in the bedroom.[Phoebe] Right.[Ed] And it's kind of weird.[Ed] So, you definitely don't want to do it in the bedroom.[Phoebe] Right.[Phoebe] So, observing those types of things is important.[Ed] So…[Phoebe] So, yeah, that, that…[Phoebe] That didn't happen again.[Ed] It's probably the 12th time that we've seen interacted with them and just like, it's just[Ed] not going to happen.[Phoebe] It's not, it's just not going to happen.[Ed] And I think we actually resigned ourselves at the end of that night, we're just like…[Phoebe] I think I gave it up finally.[Unknown] You know what?[Ed] 12th times not the charm.[Ed] It's not going to be lucky 13.[Ed] We're just going to give up on this.[Phoebe] And that night, I tried.[Phoebe] I was working her.[Phoebe] Because he said, because I did talk to him when she was outside and he was at the buffet.[Ed] We were blunt.[Ed] We were like…[Ed] I said, look, we're interested in you guys.[Ed] Do you think that, you know, is that even…[Phoebe] He's like, oh, I'm in.[Phoebe] You just have to work on her and I'm like, okay, I'm going to go work on her.[Phoebe] So, I worked her and I worked her and I worked her.[Unknown] No.[Ed] Yeah, she was just disengaged.[Ed] You know, involved in a whole bunch of just…[Phoebe] And I don't think it was just me.[Phoebe] I mean, I get that maybe she just doesn't like me that, you know, and I get that.[Phoebe] And I'm okay with that.[Phoebe] But she just looked disengaged in general with most everybody.[Unknown] Right.[Phoebe] Yeah.[Ed] But it wasn't just you.[Ed] There was something else going on too.[Ed] So…[Phoebe] So, that didn't…[Phoebe] It is what it is.[Ed] We moved on.[Ed] We moved on.[Unknown] We moved on.[Ed] No mystery meal for us.[Ed] That mystery is…[Phoebe] It's…[Phoebe] It's still a mystery.[Ed] It's still a mystery.[Ed] We will never unwrap that package.[Phoebe] Okay, main course, baby.[Ed] Oh, this was fun.[Phoebe] Yes.[Ed] So, we're in the kitchen.[Ed] We've struck out sort of once.[Ed] It was a base hit.[Ed] Here we have the second attempt.[Ed] We didn't happen at all.[Ed] Want, want, want, want.[Ed] And so we were like, you know what?[Ed] Let's make something happen.[Phoebe] Let's make something happen.[Unknown] The night is, you know, we were just like…[Ed] And so, we huddled.[Unknown] And we were like, okay, I'm into the unicorn.[Ed] You're into the single guy.[Ed] What do you think?[Unknown] Choose like…[Unknown] The gears are turning, and choose.[Unknown] Yeah![Ed] Uh-huh.[Ed] That sounds like a great idea.[Phoebe] Who sheep me?[Ed] You.[Phoebe] right? Because then we roped in unicorn. So I get real close to the unicorn. I[Ed] press my lips to her ear and I whisper, how about you and me, Phoebe and the[Unknown] single male go upstairs and have a little fun. And she said, yeah, that's a[Ed] great idea. She's been interested. And so we we knew that she was a highly[Phoebe] potential. Yes, yes, right. But the other guy, the single male, had been[Ed] talking to us throughout the night. He was definitely engaged. Right, but I want[Phoebe] to say that I've never had a single male approach you and I before at any of[Phoebe] these events. And I really, really liked that. I liked that he didn't[Phoebe] shanghai me alone. Right. I liked that he approached us both. I liked that he[Phoebe] was respectful, he was confident, courteous, and let his intentions be known and[Phoebe] wasn't like over the top. Right. And so he would approach and then he would go,[Phoebe] he'd leave and he'd mingle. And then he'd come back again and he'd check in[Phoebe] like a good salesman. He must have done that three times that night. Yeah. And by[Phoebe] the third time, I was like, I was ready to go. And this single guy is hands down[Phoebe] the best approach. Why? Because it's done with my partner. It's done with those[Phoebe] things. Confidence, respect. And what's the other thing I said? Confidence, respect,[Phoebe] and follow through. Follow through. But it also gives me time as a woman to think and process.[Unknown] Right. Because while I may not say yes on the first time, I'm going to say yes on the second[Ed] or third time, well, and it also feels very organic. It's like it's like working a room. You kind[Ed] of say, hi to somebody you introduce yourself and you go, hey, I'm going to go get a drink[Ed] if I see you around. I'll say, hi again. It was very nice meeting you. And then you circle[Ed] back around later in the evening. And it just feels more natural. Yes. You're not[Ed] hounding somebody. You're not desperate. You're not like, it's not a high pressure sale. Right.[Ed] This is a casual sale. And it worked. It did work. It was awesome. I loved it. I'll[Phoebe] I'll never forget it. It was awesome. Okay. So unicorns on board. Unicorns on board. Then[Phoebe] I think single guy had the radar. And he just walked over, I think. And we said, hey,[Ed] let's go. You're interested going upstairs. And everybody was on board green light. And in this[Ed] particular occasion, we actually got to use the master bedroom because we were with the hostess.[Unknown] That was fun. Got the big room. Giant king bed. So we wander upstairs, set the stuff out that[Ed] we need, close the curtains while we kind of looked out the windows for a little bit and[Ed] checked out the neighborhood. Yep. But everybody started getting brisky naked, clothing started[Ed] coming off. People started making out. And all four of us were all on the bed at the same time.[Phoebe] Now it's so fun when you're all on the bed together. I love it. And it was great. We were trying[Ed] to recall all of the positions and changes and things that happened. And honestly, we don't[Ed] remember all of the details for it because it was just so organic. And it wasn't, it didn't feel[Ed] like we were going through all these different positions. It just kind of happened. I do remember[Phoebe] a couple of my favorite things. Doing my bear rub. I like doing the bear rub. Oh yeah. And then[Ed] I think I was humping his leg because he loved doing that. So good. And then I was definitely[Unknown] doing cowgirl. That was awesome. Yes. And I taught him a few things with cowgirl. He rode the crap[Unknown] out of that guy. It was awesome. It looked great. And the unicorn and I had a good time. She and I[Ed] had been flirting for some time. And at the previous party where we'd not where we'd met her,[Ed] but we'd been asked to escort her to look out for her because she was by herself at this[Ed] party. And so we were kind of like shabbrowning her. But you've been with her before.[Unknown] No, I hadn't. You didn't get an opportunity. No, we'd all played on the bed at the same time,[Ed] but it was another couple that got to play with her. So I was mostly an observer.[Ed] And at the hot tub, she got to sit in my lap. But it was it was all very[Ed] above board, if you will. It was very platonic naked platonic. You had a long, long history of[Ed] long build up for that. And she was she was a little nervous about having sex with me. But[Ed] her partner had said, Oh, no, you definitely have to try that. So she was looking forward to it.[Ed] She was a little nervous, but it all worked out. I really want to use the I really want to use[Unknown] the nickname that you got on New Year's Eve. Go for it. We'll give you a little preview to New[Unknown] Year's Eve. I got the nickname quarter bounder. That's great nickname. I haven't weighed it,[Unknown] but oh, that's a good idea. People usually just measure. I know. That's it. If it's more mass,[Unknown] we'll just go with that anyway. Okay, move it on. So unicorns. A lot of fun. She had a great time.[Ed] It was her first party. She got a little party favor at the end of it. And by the time we'd finished[Ed] and gone downstairs, most of the people had started to leave. She had a co-host, so she didn't[Ed] abandon the party. But it was such a good time. Yeah. Such a good time. And so comfortable. Yes.[Unknown] And so fun because the whole evening had this nice, easy flow to it. Nothing was awkward. Nothing[Phoebe] was unusual. And it was really rare to go upstairs, play with a couple, come back down and go back[Ed] up again. Right. So yeah, we don't usually get that kind of opportunity. And it was fun. Yeah,[Ed] it was fun. We actually felt like big slits that night. Yeah, we did. But that's okay. That's great.[Ed] I'll take it. Take it. It was an all-you-can-eat buffet. And we just served up several[Ed] helpings. Yep. Yep. We went back again. We got to go back again. So what have we learned, Ed?[Ed] Well, we learned if you don't succeed at first, try, try again. Don't let one bad experience kind[Ed] of overshadow an evening. Yeah. Get back up on the horse, cowgirl. Yeah. And try again. Yeah.[Ed] You know, so you maybe you miss with the first couple that you approach. Try again. Let's say[Ed] the first couple's kind of a miss in the room. Well, clean yourself up, get your hair fixed, go[Phoebe] back out. Yep. Try again. Single guy was the winner. I told you what worked. He was respectful,[Phoebe] confidence, head confidence. And he was great with follow-through. And he didn't appear desperate[Phoebe] or pressuring. Exactly. And I think that that's the key there.[Phoebe] Observing other couples dynamics is going to be really good insight for you and them as a[Phoebe] potential play partners. Right. So, you know, even if you don't get an opportunity to talk to them,[Phoebe] just observing across the room how they interact, we'll give you a lot of information as well.[Ed] Yeah. How did they talk to each other? How did they talk to other people?[Ed] We saw that on New Year's too, where the character of someone's conversation with other people[Phoebe] will give you a big indication as to who that person is. Exactly. Why this party worked for us.[Ed] The setting was great. Everything was prepped and set out. Attention to detail was fantastic.[Ed] All of the important things were in the right places.[Ed] Plenty of food. Good mix of people. And you know, the rooms were set up for having a good time.[Phoebe] Yeah. Yeah. All in all. An awesome house party. And I can't wait for the next one. She's actually[Phoebe] had another one. We weren't able to go to it because we were buying a house. So,[Phoebe] but we'll get to the next one. Yes. So, in closing, we would really like to say that we enjoy[Unknown] all of our listeners and their support and their emails. We wish everyone a happy and healthy[Phoebe] 2020 rest assured. We have lots of great content coming this year. So stay tuned the whole year for[Phoebe] your listening enjoyment. More educational stuff on the way. More educational stuff. More[Ed] destination reviews. Yes. Party reviews. We plan on having a very active year.[Phoebe] Yes. We will be going to Costa Rica in May. Oh. So, please come. Please come. It'll be super fun.[Ed] Yeah. We're looking for as many friends to show up as they want. If you want to hang out with Ed and[Phoebe] Phoebe. Oh, yeah. Check out Costa Rica. So fun. And then in November, we're going to be on a cruise.[Ed] We'll be on the bliss cruise in November. So, if you'd like to hang out with us then we will be[Phoebe] on a boat. Oh my gosh. If you've never done it, you need to go in. So much fun. Yep. All right.[Ed] Well, here we go. End of our first episode of the new year and many episodes to come for the[Unknown] coming year. Thanks everyone for listening. This is Phoebe. And this is it. Before you turn off our[Ed] podcast, take care of all the vanilla things pulling you away. Please reach out and give us a[Ed] review. I know mashing a star is so much easier, but a review is so much better for sharing your[Ed] love of what we're doing with others. We would appreciate it. If you want to share a personal story,[Ed] ask us questions, or share your comments. Please contact us at Swinger University at gmail.com[Unknown] or on Twitter at Swingerview Podcast. Oh, one last thing before you go. 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