Ed and Phoebe reveal how they have grown as swingers in the lifestyle as individuals and as a couple. Over the past 10 years, their lives have become richer, more satisfying, and deeply connected.
Show Notes
- Confidence in the lifestyle, dressing sexy, walking around naked, nudist resorts, and a strip tease in the ballroom!
- Comfortable mixing and mingling with others. Growing out of our introvertedness.
- Adapting to swinger situations, sucky kissing, different body types, and dicks that don’t cooperate.
- Bi-sexual and Phoebe’s new identity!
- Watching Ed and becoming a Cuck Queen?
- One and done is a thing of the past? Not as many one timers and not afraid of the connection.
- FWB seems to be the way to go if you get lucky enough to find a couple that stays in the lifestyle.
- Soft Swap has always been our favorite and continues to be just as fun as full.
- Velcro is no longer needed when we are at an event. Mingling separately isn’t as frightful!
- Costumes have become more fun and are less a pain in the ass.
- Sex with other people has become very fulfilling!
- Old fucks are becoming some of the best fucks.
- Kiss-n-tell, everyone does it, so get over it!
Design, Audio, Video, Writing, Voice, Production
Ed brings extensive expertise in user experience, website design and development, and professional audio/video production. With a background in voice-over work and professional speaking, he ensures every episode meets broadcast-quality standards. Ed executes all technical aspects of production: recording in a dedicated studio designed for optimal sound quality, filming with three Insta360 4K cameras, professional audio processing (noise reduction, EQ, compression, loudness management), and editing in DaVinci Resolve. He’s programmed custom OBS macros that provide professional camera direction without a traditional technical director. Ed’s strength is turning complex technical requirements into seamless, professional execution that makes audience experience effortless.
Research, Writing, Voice, Marketing, Community
Phoebe holds a BA in Communications with a minor in Small Group and Personal Dynamics. She brings deep expertise in sexual health, relationship dynamics, and non-monogamous relationship structures. As a researcher, she meticulously curates each podcast episode, drawing from medical journals, expert interviews, and her 10+ years of lifestyle research and lived experience. Her communication background allows her to synthesize complex topics and present them accessibly across platforms. She creates marketing collateral, publishes across 8+ social media platforms, manages all SEO optimization, and moderates 3 active community forums where listeners actively seek guidance on lifestyle topics. Phoebe’s strength is taking research and experience, then making it both digestible and actionable for the community.
