If you’ve ever wished for a place where you could talk openly about swinging, non-monogamy, and lifestyle adventures without judgment, awkward stares, or fear of oversharing — this is it.

At Swinger University, our Patreon Spicy Tier gives you VIP access to our private swinger chat on Discord — a safe, closed, and supportive swinger community where you can ask questions, swap stories, and connect with people who truly understand your journey.

🌶 Why You’ll Love the Spicy Tier

When you join our exclusive online swinger group, you’ll:

  • Ask anything — from “How do we start?” to “What happened at our first club night?” — in a completely judgment-free space.
  • Get real swinger lifestyle advice from Ed, Phoebe, and a mix of experienced swingers and curious newcomers.
  • Share your lifestyle journey with other open-minded couples and singles from around the world.
  • Enjoy privacy & security — our Discord is closed to the public and drama-free.

💬 Real Connection, Real Conversation

Unlike random swinger forums, our Discord community feels like a tight-knit lifestyle family. It’s a place to:

  • Celebrate your wins (“We finally had our first soft swap!”).
  • Talk through challenges (“Help… our first meet-up was awkward.”).
  • Build friendships with people who understand your boundaries, excitement, and curiosity.

Whether you’re brand new to ethical non-monogamy or you’ve been in the lifestyle for years, you’ll feel right at home here.


🚀 How to Join the Private Swinger Chat

  1. Head over to patreon.com/SwingerUniversity
  2. Select the Spicy Tier
  3. Then use your Patreon account setting to connect Discord
  4. Jump in, say hi, and start connecting!

💡 Pro Tip: Many of our members say joining the Spicy Tier was the turning point in their swinger journey — the place they found answers, confidence, and lasting friendships.

👉 Join the Spicy Tier Now and become part of the most supportive, fun, and informative online swinger community you’ll ever find.