Swinger University: Your Educational Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy & the Swinger Lifestyle.

Learn how to explore open relationships with confidence, clarity, and compassion from experienced hosts Ed and Phoebe

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Why Swinger University?

Swinger University is not a dating service; it is a “shame-free, trauma-informed relationship education” platform led by experienced hosts Ed and Phoebe. With over a decade of experience, they provide real, practical advice and expert insights on everything from “newbie tips” to advanced communication strategies. The podcast is designed to help you navigate the swinger lifestyle – safely and enjoyably, by helping you build stronger bonds and explore your desires. This educational approach is rooted in our practical experience navigating the lifestyle for the last ten+ years, and our combined life experience struggling with everything humans struggle with – communication, body-image, conflict, and all the trials of dating.

Meet Your Hosts!

Phoebe Swinger Host of the Swinger University Podcast and YouTube Channel

Phoebe Swinger

I’m Phoebe, your friendly neighborhood researcher and content guru for the podcast. I love digging into all things physical and mental health. I’m the one who curates the podcast episodes, blog posts, and newsletters, making sure everything is packed with information and a little bit of fun. I also manage our SEO, social media, and jump into our group chats to answer your questions. Basically, if it’s got to do with content, I’m on it!

Ed Swinger

I’m Ed, the technical wizard behind the scenes. I’m responsible for all the things you see and hear. With my background in voice-over work and public speaking, I make sure we sound as good as possible, and my expertise in website design and user experience allows me to create a smooth, easy-to-use experience. I’m also the one who records, films, and edits each episode, making sure the final product is a polished, professional piece of art.

Swinger Host of the Swinger University Podcast and YouTube Channel

The Swinger’s Guide: A Foundational Resource

The journey into the swinger lifestyle requires open communication, trust, and mutual respect among all parties. The Swinger’s Guide section is designed to be your first step, offering a comprehensive overview of the basics you need to know. Before exploring this new territory, it’s crucial to have an honest conversation with your partner to discuss your thoughts, desires, and motivations. The lifestyle can be a way to reignite the spark in a stagnant sex life or a safe, consensual environment to explore fantasies that one partner may not share. In addition to sexual satisfaction, couples often report improved communication, increased trust, and a deeper emotional connection.  

This section will also prepare you for the real world of swinging by addressing important safety topics, as the podcast does. You will learn how to spot potential “red flags before you end up in an uncomfortable or unsafe situation” and separate fact from fiction regarding diversity, consent, and relationship risks. When you’re ready to find other swingers, modern technology offers various platforms tailored to the community, including specialized dating apps and online forums.

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While the podcast is our core educational resource, our community is where the real connection happens. We invite you to join our private, members-only community on Patreon to get “Spicy Extras & Behind the Scenes” content and exclusive access to our Discord group. Enjoy our exclusive discussions and content and connect with a community that shares your interests and values.  Plus you get to help support the show!

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